"good enough" is good too
/The last few weeks have been too busy for me. It has all been good- but at a pace that I could not longer keep. Guests, travel, birthdays, and then Easter (which I was hosting). Saturday night I surrendered. Instead of scurrying around working myself into a froth over all that was left to be done- I collapsed on the couch with Carl and watched this movie. For me, Holidays are usually about letting go a bit. I can be "way-over-the-top-idealistic"- and, at some point during the preparations, I usually come to the realization that I cannot accomplish everything that I envisioned. I am learning to be okay with that. I am learning to laugh at the little imperfections. It is possible to make events special and enjoy them too.
I ran out of time to make place mats, napkins and new curtains for the dining room- but this little chick and some cheery tulips seemed to do the trick.
No one seemed to mind hunting for eggs with plastic shopping bags instead of sweet little wicker baskets, or the absence of fancy apparel donned by my daughters.
The tart crust that collapsed as I piled huge strawberries on top of it was easily hid beneath the thick layer of mascarpone cheese.
Playing a Nintendo Wii was not my select choice of entertainment for a holiday like Easter. However, when I was beating my husband in a round of golf by 3 strokes I quite liked it! (He did win- I blew it on the 9th hole. Thanks to my sister-in-law for bringing it and taking it back home with her :)
We ate, we laughed, we hunted for the golden eggs, we were together... and that is all that really matters. Thank you family for helping, and for humoring me.
